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When Life Feels More Like a Performance Than an Experience
Do you sometimes find yourself in a quiet moment, perhaps at night when everyone else is asleep, and you start reflecting on your day, your week or your life in general? Perhaps certain thoughts come into your mind like: ‘Why does it feel like I’m acting a role instead of living my life?’ The more that thought takes hold, the more you might recognise performances that you’ve given without ever really deciding to. That might look like the easy smile that you wear like a mask,


Why You Might Feel Lonely Even When You’re Not Alone
It’s possible to be in a room full of people and still feel a very specific kind of loneliness. Have you ever been to a social gathering like a party, a club or somewhere with lots of people you know, like and/or love and somehow still felt very alone? It’s a feeling that can be hard to explain or describe. How can you be lonely when you’re surrounded by people? Well, you can. This isn’t necessarily about not having anybody to turn to or support you. This is quieter. You may


Why Busy Places Can Leave You Exhausted
Do you ever get home from the shops or a social gathering feeling completely drained? Not just a bit tired, or even very tired, but drained. Do you feel as if every drop of energy has disappeared and your entire self – body, brain and emotions – needs to recover? This isn’t your imagination and it isn’t you being dramatic. You might have been told that this is an extreme reaction, or you might have suspected it yourself when you were feeling this way, especially if it seems l
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What Support Can Actually Feel Like
If you’re an adult who always copes alone then there’s a chance that you learned how to manage a long time ago. This could mean that asking for help feels very unusual, possibly even unsettling or scary. What can support actually feel like? You might have an idea of what it should feel like or you might have had experiences of it in the past and these could be positive or negative or bits of both. This doesn’t necessarily answer how the right support might feel for you. The i
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Aug 153 min read


Why It’s So Hard To Ask For Help
Hands reaching out to each other Many people believe that they need to reach a certain point before they consider asking for help. This point isn’t usually at the beginning and it’s rarely when you’ve reached your limit. It’s later than that. Asking for help tends to happen when there are no other options. You passed your limit a while ago and the strain is becoming harder to ignore. It’s very common to tell yourself that you’ll handle it. ‘I’ll manage’ becomes such a familia
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Jul 313 min read


Why Do I Need So Much More Recovery Time Than Everyone Else?
This is a question that often goes hand in hand with frustration and painful self questioning. You rest, you take breaks, you try to slow down but it never really seems to be enough. After seemingly ordinary events like a typical day at work, a social gathering or being in a busy environment (including everyday places like supermarkets), you might notice that you don’t just feel tired, you feel drained, almost hollowed out. When this happens you do your best to rest but your
Nadia
Jul 183 min read


You Don’t Have To Keep Doing This Alone
Multiple hands holding, symbolising connection and support Life is full of challenges. Some are chosen. Some can’t be helped. Others seem to sneak up on you when you least expect it. There are ways of coping with these challenges that become so familiar that you don’t even notice them. This can look like figuring things out by yourself, dealing with whatever needs doing, carrying things even when they’re heavy. On the outside that can look like strength, reliability and depen
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Jul 44 min read


The Cycle of Burnout, Recovery and Doing It All Over Again
There is a pattern that a lot of people can fall into without intending to. It isn’t something that gets consciously formed, it’s something that gradually grows and usually looks something like this: Push – Crash – Rest – Restart – Repeat. That ability to push through is often praised and encouraged and over time, the cycle starts to feel like normal life. So let’s break it down. The Push. This is the time when you’ve got the most energy. You’re focused, driven and getting th
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Jun 224 min read


Why everything feels harder than it ‘should’
You feel tired and you suspect you feel more tired than most people seem to get. This is something that runs much deeper. It’s a specific kind of tiredness that doesn’t really make sense. It runs constantly in the background like a subroutine, even on days that seem manageable, and sleep doesn’t really help the way it should. You show up, you get things done and nothing seems exactly difficult, you might even be applauded for your calm and your can do attitude. Are you always
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Jun 85 min read
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